Why relationships fail

Why relationships fail

The reason of relations fail: Suppose the wife had this SATTVIC mode of goodness dominating and the husband had the mode of passion.

The wife said, "There is one lecture series that has begun in the comfort Inn Plano and some good wisdom is going to be shared let's go and hear the lecture today."

The husband was influenced by the mode of passion. He said, "what lecture are you talking about, the head will be riddled with all these theories and philosophies, a new movie has come, let us go and see it we will get all kinds of entertainment out there."

Now the conflict began in Relationship!No,no...no, no one went for the lecture, one went for the picture. They came back, a picture started ar home. You never listen to me, you always do your own thing. They started lecturing each other.

Why did this fight take place? Because the wife was influenced by SATTVA and the husband was influenced by RAJAS. These are not good in Relationships. Such kind of fights is taking place in Relationship every day! If you think this brother and brother are not fighting, this father and son are not fighting, this husband and wife are not fighting, you are mistaken. It is seeming like that to you because you are seeing the external. Internally the AGITATION is going on in Relationship, externally FRIENDLINESS is going on. They are adjusting externally, internally the friction is happening in Relationship.

There is the Principle of the SHASTRAS.

One day, the wife asked the husband, "It is fifth of the month?"

Husband:"yes",

Wife: "Remember!" last month we had gone to the shopping mall and we saw that new SARI

worth 2000/rupees.

Husband: so, 

Wife: "This month it should come." The husband thought in his mind look at this WITCH, she doesn't think. Does money grow on trees? The husband told the wife, today evening I have called some of my friends home for a little party. you have to cook up a nice meal for all of them. Wife had thought of meeting her cousin in the nearby place. She thought, what does he think to me? I am his servant to make dinner for his friends! There has proved that the Relationship is in awful. Internally the grumbling goes on. And those who are unwise internally also the grumbling goes on and externally also they fight. So those who are less intelligent they fight externally and failed in Relationship.