long distance relationship

Long distance Relationship

Long distance Relationship: One important thing about these Relationships ultimately, all these Relationships are temporary. And one day, everybody will be separated. You may call them your blood relatives, you will have to depart. Consider the train journey. If you want to experience Relationships you must travel in Indian Railways. In that little Encapsulated bogie, people come and sit down. Supposing you are catching the Delhi mail from Delhi to Assam. Now in that second class, sleeper class people have come and sat down. They have to pass the time because 24 hours will be spent together. So what to do? You strike up a friendship."Where are you going?" "I am going to Siliguri." Where are you going?" "I am going to Malda." "Ok, I see. If you ever come to Siliguri, come to my house." And they become great friends. They make a great Relationship. But when Malda comes, 3 miles in advance he is wrapping up his luggage. The other says, "what are you doing?" "We were having such a wonderful time together." I would get down here. And my ticket is up to Malda, if I continue the journey to Siliguri then T.T will come and take fine form me. His ticket is only till Malda. There have finished their great Relationship similarly, all of us have come with own tickets. You are given 65 years and 2 months, you are given 75 years and 4 months. When the tickets will over, get off from these Relationships.

Look at Abhimanyu whose father was GEETA GYANI ARJUN. And whose uncle was

SHREE KRISHNA, GOD HIMSELF. And his marriage lagan with Uttara was decided by VEDA VYASA, the writer of 18 PURANS. That Abhimanyu passed away at the battleground. Arjun is sitting there and crying, "GOD please bring my son back to life." God says, look Arjun I can bring him back, but he will not come back to life in this body.

You are God, you can do anything."I don't break the rules, his ticket was only still here.

These big Personalities are going by their tickets and we are thinking, "oh the son is dying! Pandit Ji, come and do MRITYUNJAYA JAPA." It doesn't work like that. These are all temporary Relationships.

Why relationships fail

Why relationships fail

The reason of relations fail: Suppose the wife had this SATTVIC mode of goodness dominating and the husband had the mode of passion.

The wife said, "There is one lecture series that has begun in the comfort Inn Plano and some good wisdom is going to be shared let's go and hear the lecture today."

The husband was influenced by the mode of passion. He said, "what lecture are you talking about, the head will be riddled with all these theories and philosophies, a new movie has come, let us go and see it we will get all kinds of entertainment out there."

Now the conflict began in Relationship!No,no...no, no one went for the lecture, one went for the picture. They came back, a picture started ar home. You never listen to me, you always do your own thing. They started lecturing each other.

Why did this fight take place? Because the wife was influenced by SATTVA and the husband was influenced by RAJAS. These are not good in Relationships. Such kind of fights is taking place in Relationship every day! If you think this brother and brother are not fighting, this father and son are not fighting, this husband and wife are not fighting, you are mistaken. It is seeming like that to you because you are seeing the external. Internally the AGITATION is going on in Relationship, externally FRIENDLINESS is going on. They are adjusting externally, internally the friction is happening in Relationship.

There is the Principle of the SHASTRAS.

One day, the wife asked the husband, "It is fifth of the month?"

Husband:"yes",

Wife: "Remember!" last month we had gone to the shopping mall and we saw that new SARI

worth 2000/rupees.

Husband: so, 

Wife: "This month it should come." The husband thought in his mind look at this WITCH, she doesn't think. Does money grow on trees? The husband told the wife, today evening I have called some of my friends home for a little party. you have to cook up a nice meal for all of them. Wife had thought of meeting her cousin in the nearby place. She thought, what does he think to me? I am his servant to make dinner for his friends! There has proved that the Relationship is in awful. Internally the grumbling goes on. And those who are unwise internally also the grumbling goes on and externally also they fight. So those who are less intelligent they fight externally and failed in Relationship.